Friends and Enemies

Sorry it's been so long since I have written. I've been so busy traveling and making money that I haven't had time or been inspired to write. I'm back on my hustle now and back to working so I will start keeping up with the blog. After all, this is the only place I have to share all my secrets.

Here's the topic.... What is the difference between a friend and an enemy?

In the industry, you can be friends one day and enemies the next. When money is involved it seems everyone is only out for themselves. I hate it too. How much more can you make if you are just nice to people and treat them with respect. Who cares if they are your competition because it doesn't have to be that way. I like to be on a team! That team could be two or three girls or it could be five. The more the better chances you have at making money during the night because you have more eyes on the quality of customers coming in. Now of course you can't all sit at the same table together because not many good customers will take 3-5 girls, but you can separate off and get 2 tables and everyone makes money. It's not rocket science. It only took me 10 years to understand that. I wish I could go back in time and make up for all that missing money!!!

Any thoughts on this subject??? Please leave some comments!

Independent Contractor Status

What does it mean that dancers are independent contractors? You may be asking your self this question and I can give you the answer. Well part of that means that the customer does not tell us how much we should be paid or in the words of my customer last night "What he thinks I'm worth!" I decide what I charge by the hour in VIP or on the floor. I just happen to charge $500 an hour for either for my time, which I feel is valuable. I'm not a new dancer, I've been in the game for years and I know that my time is money. I could be sitting with someone else who would possibly offer me more. I make that decision though, not the customer. The customer can make the decision to sit with another girl. 


I danced for this guy for 2 hours in VIP. I listened for hours to how his wife left him, cheated on him with her boss, took all his money, broke up their home, etc. etc. etc. All dancers have heard the story before and none of us want to listen to that for free. I could stay home from work and watch a nice movie and have a glass of wine if I wasn't there to MAKE MONEY!!! Hello.. It's my source of income. 


So when it's time for me to be paid by Stuart, he says he will not pay me the $500 an hour that I told him UP FRONT and that HE AGREED TO... That's what I charge. I said ok I'll negotiate with you for $800 total for 2 hours and he told me to f*ck off. Then his friend said I "took advantage of the fat guy" and that I should feel sorry for him and accept $500 total. He also mentioned that if I wanted to make so much money I should have became a doctor.... WTF SMH


What do you guys think about this?